Tips for Staying Safe

If you are still in the relationship:

1. Think of an escape route if you are confronted by your abuser.
2. Think of a list of people and resources you can contact in an emergency.
3. Keep a spare set of keys and extra clothing with a friend.
4. Keep important papers in one place that you can easily access.
5. Establish a code word with family and friends that will alert them if needed.
6. Address safety issues with your child(ren).
   1. Go to a safe place.
   2. A safe person to talk to.
   3. Calling for help and its dangers.
7. Stay aware of warning signs in your relationship.
8. Try to save money without your abuser becoming aware.

If you are planning to leave the relationship:

1. Remember important papers (birth certificates, immunization records, school records, insurance forms, cart titles, etc.).
2. Check your emergency resources.
3. Keep your keys and belongings in easy access.
4. Rehearse your escape plan.

If you have left the relationship:

1. Try not to stay alone.
2. Screen your calls.
3. Document all contacts with your abuser.
4. Secure your home.
   1. Change locks if still in the home.
   2. Check batteries in smoke alarms.
   3. Be sure of outside lighting.
   4. Think of ways to alert yourself of intruders.
5. Inform appropriate people at your workplace.
6. Obtain a protection order.
7. Alert neighbors and family that your mate should no longer be there.
8. Code word.
9. Check out your vehicle before entering it, and keep it locked.
   1. Be aware of your surroundings.
   2. Change routines

Remember to stay safe and prepared. Go over your safety plan regularly